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The bond between you and your cat is very special. Understandably, you will want to keep them alive for as long as possible. But there may come a time when your cat’s quality of life begins to decline due to illness, injury or age.
If treatment to reduce their pain or distress is not possible or no longer effective, the most loving and courageous way you can show them how much you care is to end their suffering.
Making the decision to end your cat’s life can be very difficult. You can always talk with your vet, who is there to help and advise you.
Knowing what to expect can make it a little easier. Read our guide below on what happens when your cat is put down.
As a pet owner, it’s important to assess your cat’s quality of life to prevent suffering as they get older or if they become ill.
Assessing quality of life is not always easy, so ask for support and guidance from your vet. Your vet will examine your cat and provide guidance on the treatment options available, what’s right for your cat and whether it’s time to consider euthanasia.
You may need to assess your cat’s quality of life if they:
Discuss in advance with your vet whether you wish to be with your cat when they are put down.
It may be comforting for your cat if they can hear a familiar voice and have your presence to soothe them.
But it’s understandable if you feel it’s just too difficult to stay with them. Also, if you’re frightened or anxious, your cat may sense this and become upset.
We are all different, so do what you feel will be best for you and your cat.
The cost of cat euthanasia can vary between vet practices. It will typically cost between £100 and £300.
If euthanasia needs to be performed as an emergency at night or on the weekend, costs may be higher. The appointment may cost more if you decide you’d like the vet to come to your home rather than the procedure being carried out at the surgery. Costs also vary depending on whether you want the vet to arrange for cremation.
Talk to your vet practice about the various costs and options. As it’s a very distressing time, you may want to consider paying in advance of the appointment, as you’re likely to be upset at the time.
Sometimes it isn’t possible to make decisions about after-death care in advance. But where it’s possible, it can be helpful to think about the options available when you’re not in a state of distress surrounding the loss of your cat.
There are a variety of options available for what you can do with your cat’s body and how you might like to memorialise your cat. Generally, pets are buried or cremated. Deciding what to do may depend on your personal circumstances and preferences.
You can talk to your vet practice to find out what options they have available. Or you may like to arrange after-death care yourself.
Find out more about after-death options on The Association of Private Pet Cemeteries and Crematoria website.
Your vet can arrange for your cat to be cremated, or you can take their body to your chosen pet crematorium yourself. You will need to inform your vet of your wishes at the time of euthanasia if you want your vet to arrange the cremation.
Many crematoria and cremation services will allow you to visit them and see the facilities. This will help you understand exactly what will happen to your cat during cremation.
Communal cremation
Individual cremation
Please also be aware that collecting your cat’s ashes can be a difficult thing to do. You may not want to collect your cat’s ashes immediately, as it may feel too raw for you. Perhaps ask a friend or family member to come with you for support or to collect them on your behalf. Usually, the vet practice or crematorium is happy to look after the ashes for a period of time until you feel able to collect them.
You may prefer to take your cat’s body home to bury in the garden.
If you bury your cat at home:
For more information, see the UK government’s advice about animal burials or speak to your local authority.
The benefits of burying at home include being able to visit your cat at any time, and you may feel closer to your cat being at home. But consider whether you’re likely to move home in the future and whether you would move your cat’s remains or leave them behind.
Choosing a pet cemetery is another option if you don’t have the facility to bury at home or do not want cremation. While it can be an expensive service, it’s often very personal. Most ceremonies can be accompanied by a short memorial service.
Often costs will include:
The loss of your cat can be as traumatic and emotionally challenging as the loss of any other family member. Whatever the circumstances of your loss, it’s likely that you’ll be grieving. Grief is a unique and individual experience. It’s perfectly normal to grieve for the loss of a loved one, but there’s no normal way to grieve and no time limit on the process.
It may be that your beloved cat hasn’t yet died, and you’re anticipating and perhaps dreading their death. Perhaps you have a very difficult decision to make and are struggling with how you’ll get through this. This type of situation often brings anticipatory grief, a type of grieving that starts even before your cat has died.
Making the decision to end your cat’s life can feel like a huge responsibility and may leave you with complicated feelings and thoughts as you grieve your loss and reflect over what has happened.
We understand what you’re going through and are here to provide advice and support.