Preparing for a new arrival? Take a look at our tips on how to help your cat cope with a baby in the home.
Getting you and your cat ready for your baby
Expecting a baby is an exciting time with lots of change and preparation. Helping your cat adjust to the change of routine is important too.
For tips on how to prepare your cat for your baby, watch our video below. You can also take a look at our visual guide on how to prepare throughout pregnancy and use our free MP3 download of baby sounds.
How can I prepare my cat for my baby?
Cats are wonderful, stress-reducing companions, so they can be a very welcome, calming influence during pregnancy.
There are some steps you can take to ensure everyone is prepared for your new arrival:
- take your cat to the vet for a check-up
- get your cat neutered if they aren't already
- introduce your cat to new baby equipment, such as nursery furniture or a pram. Let your cat investigate but don't let them climb on them and then keep them shut away. It's important to keep baby items off limits as they will be very tempting places for your cat to sleep
- get your cat used to hearing baby sounds
- consult your doctor or health visitor about any other steps that you need to take
Download our pregnancy planner and count down to your due date.
Should I worry about toxoplasmosis when I'm pregnant?
Some people believe - mistakenly - that cats can be bad for pregnant women.
This belief stems from concerns about toxoplasmosis, a micro-organism that can affect the foetus if a pregnant woman is infected. However, a major study in the British Medical Journal concluded that contact with cats was not a significant risk factor for toxoplasma infection.
Pregnant women should wear disposable gloves and an apron when cleaning litter trays - or get someone else to do this. Litter trays should be cleaned daily to reduce the possibility of toxoplasmosis spores developing from infected faeces.
Find out more about Cats and toxoplasmosis
Before and after your baby arrives
Cats are creatures of habit, so the biggest challenge for your cat might be the changes to routines that occur with the arrival of a baby. You can help your cat adjust by making some changes before your baby arrives:
- make the nursery off-limits, particularly if your cat is used to having free rein in your home
- reduce the amount of lap time your cat enjoys (you won't have as much time for your cat when your baby arrives)
- if you need to move your cat's feeding or toileting spots, do this gradually so your cat can adjust
- When your baby arrives:
- use a safe cot or pram net to keep the cat away and pull it taut to deter your cat from using it as a bed
- make sure the nursery is inaccessible while your baby sleeps and make sure any windows are cat proof
- keep baby's feeding utensils out of your cat's reach
- keep baby and cat food separate - you don't want to mix them up in a sleep-deprived moment!
- try to save a little time to give your cat attention daily. This will help you both remain relaxed
- remember your cat should be treated regularly for fleas and worms and their litter tray kept clean
- And never:
- leave your baby and cat together alone, even if you trust your cat completely
- leave children's sandboxes uncovered in case a cat uses it as a litter tray
Our Behaviourist, Daniel, gives his top tips on preparing your cat for your baby's arrival.
How to prepare your cat with baby sounds
The arrival of a new baby in the home can be stressful for your cat but there are several ways you can prepare them for this big change to their surroundings. One important step is to get them used to the noises your new baby will make, mainly loud crying.
Before your baby arrives, introduce your cat to baby-crying noises in a safe and controlled way. To help you, we’ve created a free download of crying sounds which you can find below and put together some easy instructions for how to use it.
- At a time when nothing else stressful is going on in the home, choose a room that the cat is naturally relaxed in.
- Find a device on which you can play the crying audio.
Test the sound volume when the cat is not in the room, so as not to spook them.
Set the volume to a very low level so that it is barely audible.
- When the cat chooses to enter the room, start playing the audio at the original, low volume for approximately two minutes – this may need to be shortened depending on your cat’s reaction. You can interact with your cat as normal at this time but don’t do anything that will make them stressed.
- If the cat does not appear fazed by the noise, repeat steps 1-3 at the same volume level on two more separate occasions. If the cat remains unfazed by the noise, you can then progress to step five.
- Increase the volume by a small amount and repeat steps 1-4. If your cat is happy with the volume then slightly increase it again and continue this process over time until the volume is as loud as a normal baby’s cry.
Remember, if at any stage your cat looks uncomfortable or fearful, return to a lower volume.
Never make a sudden jump in volume as this could spook your cat – it needs to be gradual for it to work.
The entire point of this exercise is for your cat to have no reaction to the sound, so don’t panic if you don’t see your cat react – this is what is supposed to happen. If you increase the volume gradually over time, hopefully you’ll never see a reaction!
Concerned about your cat's behaviour?
If you are concerned about your cat's behaviour following your baby's arrival, please seek advice from a qualified cat behaviourist who may be able to pinpoint a trigger and help you resolve the issue.